Confidence and Conversations
I'll be sharing topics about building confidence and have a good conversation with someone. We are all trying to learn so please leave comments. -Rey.P
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Embarrassed when your caught stalking the person you like? Fight or Flight?
Have you ever liked a girl so much that you end up stalking her? Well, one of the most embarrassing moment I seen in men is when they are caught stalking a girl, they running off with their tail between their legs. If you get caught stalking the person you like, DON'T RUN AWAY!!! Yes, getting caught stalking is embarrassing, but you can still redeem and save yourself from further embarrassment and possibly win her over. As long as you stay confident and fight. This might sound a bit weird, but girls like attention. They like guys pursuing her, cause it makes her feel special. Most importantly they Love confidential men. Remember this, if you ever get caught, face it! You have a 80% chance of successfully meeting her and even ask her out on a date, if you play your cards right this is. Confidently walk up to her the moment she catches you, and tell her : "Hi, you might know this by now, but i have been paying lot of attention to you. You are one of the most stunning girl I have seen. I am sorry if my actions scared you, but I was just looking for a chance to meet you. I'm [introduce yourself]....", and just start a normal conversation with her. In contrary, if you flee, you'll have 0% chance of meeting her without giving her the impression of a coward or creepier. Most importantly, you have nothing to lose if you face it. Cause your already embarrassed from getting caught. Its a win or win situation. So should we fight or flight?
-Rey.P
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